i listened to era.fm on my way to office today.
their morning chat topic of the day was 'isteri berubah selepas berkahwin, or maybe suami isteri' i dont quite know , cos i only managed to listen to one caller before shifting to another station

he got on my nerves.
this guy was complaining about his wife, how she balloned after the 1st child and was being ignorant about her body image with the arrival of the kid.
"saya dah suruh kurus, dia buat tak tau je, hari2 jaga anak, jaga anak je.."
"isteri kena la jaga badan, kalau masa kawin mcm tu, lepas kawin pun mcm tu la"
the Dj went on suggesting that the wife should go for exercises n gym.
"apa kata dia pegi gym hari2 kan, hari2 dok kat gym" at this point i think the DJ was being sarcastic.
and the man goes "ha, sepatutnya mcm tu la"

God!
jauhkanla aku dari manusia2 mcm ni.

though i agree with the fact that man n woman should at least try to look their best, n most importantly be healthy for each other, n for the relationship, even if (or especially) the relationship spells marriage, i think it would be a shame to have your husband complaining about ur lack of effort in self management, esp due to attending HIS own kids, on air.

wateva happened to for better or for worse?