Conversation with win last night and jenn'sweekly supplement inspired this.
I was a serious die-hard chatter freak once, and that was not known to many. Hence admitting that i met Mr Dearest online on one fateful eve is simply not an easy task. Probably, yeah, the reason why is simply because i dont want them to be under the impression that i was desperate, and hence quietly, resorted to the internet for help. Because i didnt. Tapi yelah, wat to do, that's where i met him, there's certainly no regret abt it cos he's definitely a beeeeg catch, at least to me la.
Actuallykan why worry abt wat ppl think? Why must we impose upon ourself things like 'meeting the one online is NOT cool'? Before we know it, we become prejudice. We become one of them, the stereotypicals. Tapikan how can we build such a strong principle, the no-no list, for something as uncontrolled as fate, like our own jodoh.
Mama, as most mothers, told me and reminded me over and over again, dont dislike anyone, else yg mcm tu lah yg u'll end up with.
Have an open heart.
If u want to go online to find ur true one, pegi jelah, just be careful. Whatever history a guy/girl has, it's HISTORY. Nobody's perfect afterall.
If ur parents have someone they want u to meet, go. It's not about 'tangkap muat'. Just open yourself to possibilities, discount no one, u'll be surprised, trust me.
So yes, we met thru the net.
It was new year's eve 2002 by the way. A bored girl and a heartbroken guy. The rest is history, insyaAllah.. hehe
Love u dear!