so, end of part one
the merisik went smooth
che long, ayah din and ida came to help and support. oh, i called hetz at the last hour, to "just check if she'd like to come and witness the whole thing".. hehe, ok, i was freaking out!!

i can always trust my parents for small talks and little jokes here n there. that went smooth untill ida alerted that the mom is going to meet me in the room. suddenly rasa mcm cuak.. wat have i got myself into?? ahahha..yes, we had that 'anak dara sitting in the room looking pretty' ordeal.. and i was nervous and sleepy through it. the mom did sarungkan the cincin. and she did ask THE question. thank God hetz was nowhere visible (ie directly besides me) ..hehe..the family is great. i feel at ease compared to the first time meeting them. talked a lot only to the sister. i was quiet most of the time, or maybe, all the time throughout the event. the mom did give me a shock la, i didnt know she can talk that much. perhaps out of nervousness. the guys, my dad, his, the bros, and the cute bro in law (hetz, he's obviously taken) really had some conversation going on. oh, the bro immediately after him look exactly like him.. well, maybe 15kg lighter.. freaky..

all in all, everything went smooth, though a little too formal than expected. i really think we should do without the sarungkan ceremony and THE question..arrghh..malunya kalau ingat balik!!
i met him afterward, and trust me, it felt a bit different. i was shy-ish with him..hahah.. but that doest last long.. hehe

so, thanks to everybody, esp those kind words. thx hetz, for the last minute arrangement. thx papa, mama, yeh n cho for doing the shopping around, abe for the ONLY three pics of the ceremony, zetty for behaving, and ok bibik..for lots of stuff. thx dear for the lord of the rings- first installment.. heheh..