this morning
on my way to the office, i listened to a lady mengadu on the radio kena paksa kawin by her parents.. she's going to do it anyhow, because she doesnt want to hurt them.. the thing is, she was in a relationship with another guy for almost 2 yrs..

i know this is not my first time dgr cerita2 mcm ni.. i've watched some of yusoff haslam movies if not all (?!!).. but of course, those are cerita

now.. i dunno if i can do the same thing if the case were to apply to me..
but then again, i'm not one of those who'll go the distance for love.. takdelah nak berkorban.. nak fight parents and stuff..
but then again,(repetitivenya aku) being an ortodox me.. marriage is almost like a submission to me..
a girl, bila dah kawin will treat her husband as the most important creature on earth..even more important than her parents..
in a way, she submits not only her physical self, it's her soul we're talking about here..everything in his hand, wateva u say mister..(as long it is not contradicting with THE Master)
ok, he may be a good person.. provide u everything..but to think of sleeping next to a guy u dont like.. and having another guy in mind.. and of course, it's not just sleeping...
wat should u be thinking to steer away those thought about ur truly loved one? think that u're letting this guy touch you because it'll do your parents good? God, the association of 'parents' and the act is so, so, unimaginable..(though it is only through such act, and the association, u're here.. eheh)

well..
i wish the girl will do her best, open her heart and pray she'll be tenteram and ikhlas as a wife..
wateva it is, as long as she carry on her duty, i believe God will be with her
afterall, it's an ibadah on it's own
who knows.. his husband is THE one afterall..God is fair

anyhow, i salute her for her firm decision to marry her parent's choice despite her 2 yrs relationship
no, i'm not all for arranged marriage anyway, thank God i escaped one!
even if she decides otherwise, she owes a pat on the back.. for having a strong stand on stuff like this
being a libra i am, i dont think i'll ever manage.. : )

hari2 jumaat ni mcm baik je
nampak benda2 baik je through troubles..
hehe.. reality is, i'm so, so grateful that my parents have acceptedjazmi despites their insecurity over some matters
bila pikir mcm tu, i've got almost everything in my relationship already..
love and blessing